"Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to
Dreamgirl - A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a
Relationship"
by
Sherry Argov
"Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl is one of the best I have ever owned. It teaches women how NOT to commit the mistakes that we seem to be programmed to do in relationships. So many women give up their lives (hobbies, relaxation time, etc) for their relationship. Why should we? This book is not as harsh as the title portrays, it basically teaches you how to live your own life and in turn make yourself and your significant other happier.~Tech Girl
'Why
Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl
'
Book Description
Do you feel like you are too nice?
Sherry Argov’s
Why
Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl delivers a unique perspective
as to why men are attracted to a strong woman who stands up for herself.
With saucy detail on every page, this no-nonsense guide reveals why a strong
woman is much more desirable than a "yes woman" who routinely sacrifices
herself. The author provides compelling answers to the tough questions women
often ask:
-Why are men so romantic in the beginning and why do they change?
-Why do men take nice girls for granted?
-Why does a man respect a woman when she stands up for herself?
Full of much-needed advice, hilarious real-life relationship scenarios, "she
says/he thinks" tables, and the author’s unique "Attraction Principles,"
Why Men Love Bitches gives you bottom-line answers. It helps you know who
you are, stand your ground, and relate to men on a whole new level. Once
you’ve discovered the feisty attitude men find so magnetic, you’ll
not only increase the romantic chemistry in the relationship-you’ll
gain your man’s love and respect with far less effort.
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Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl
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READER'S COMMENTS ON Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl - A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship
Don't misunderstand that it tell you to be a [...], it actually tells you to be firm but nice in a relationship and how not to be a doormat to a man. Men will respect you more if you hold your ground and say no sometimes than if you bend over backwards and cater to them 110% of the time. However, do not tolerate an abusive relationship. Most of the stuff are good, although I think now that my dating relationship crisis is over and have been happily married for over 6 months, I don't quite remember the rules. But I think once you know the concept and learn to use it, it becomes second nature. Definitely a book worth reading.~Newbie Yogi
RE: Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl
Men will hate this book. They hate all those books we women have to read to be able to know how to have any kind of a peaceful relationship with them. Since The Millenium wasn't ushered in with any manuals, we need to read all we can and this book is included in my list. We all forget sometimes that the best things in life are the simplest. We've evolved so much that we're taught from birth that as intellectual beings, we're duty bound to learn to take the simple and make it really complicated (lawyers come to mind here). But the attraction game is simple, intuitive, and alive in all animals...even us. Even marriage shouldn't kill it. Come on, we all know this. We need to "strategize" through life in all arenas to continue to get what we want.....i.e., work, social groups, friends, politics. It is essential in our erotic/intimate relationships, too.....including AFTER marriage. Anyone with kids can tell you we have a capacity for this stuff early.......and for a reason. Only the most obsequious, yes-men/women think that all we need to do is "make nice" to get what we deserve. So don't make it so easy on everyone to know the score with you. Don't take away a man's chance to long for you a little....or get a little worried, or work up a little sweat over you, thinking you may not be as available as he thought you were. Let him have his little bit of adrenaline rush for you. It's what men like and it's what made them pursue you in the first place. What's so bad? Keep him wondering and I guarantee you, you will not only be treated better, but you'll be a lot happier with yourself as well. ~L.B.
Of course men don't like this book
(Why
Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to
Dreamgirl)...the info and advice given, unfortunately, is true...all
across the boards...bad guy, nice guy, doesn't matter. It's the difference
between how men and women operate in romantic relationships. It's about our
different needs, recognizing them, and understanding what we need to do to
fulfill those needs. It's easy to look at this as "game-playing" and
"trickery"...but the fact is it addresses a very real and true aspect of
male and female human nature.
Anything that comes easy to a man, he does NOT appreciate...plain and simple.
Men are competitive and they need to "win" not be handed thins on a
sliver-plated. And men enjoy a challenge and roughing it out...not things
that are comfy and cozy...they bore of that very easily or they become to
"comfortable". The more you give a man, the less he will want or think he
needs to give. To a woman, giving also means getting...it's not about not
being genuine, it's about give and take, sharing, cooperation. Women are
socialized this way. Men are NOT socialized this way. Men are socialized
to be looking out for number one. Getting doesn't necessarily mean giving.
And men don't easily "give". It doesn't mean they are necessarily bad. You
can read this in books like Men Are From Mars, Women are From Venus too (written
by a man, btw).
So, it's about fulfilling mutual needs. A woman needs a man to take action
on a continual basis in a relationship. If a woman ends up giving too much,
then he won't take action...and no one will be happy.
Why
Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl
isn't what most people think from the title, although it's a great
title if you want to sell a book. It's not about being cruel to men AT ALL.
It's about understand what motivates a man...and being really nice, giving
all the time, showering him with attention 24/7 ain't it.
In addition, it's a very easy and entertaining read. It doesn't take itself
too seriously, yet has some very spot on and practical advice. Obviously,
there will always be things that don't apply to every unique person and
relationship, but bottomline, it's a great measuring stick and a great book
to put things in perspective for the over-giving woman who doesn't understand
why it's not always the best thing to "just be yourself". You have to be
yourself but with some discretion...and understand who you are dealing with...a
man!~Happy-go-lucky
Excellent reading. This is a book I wish I had read many years ago. It is
quite insightful. Easy to read and easy to digest, the wit and wisdom of
this book are worth checking out. My mantra is to become a dreamgirl, even
at this late date. I have begun making choices and voicing my own opinions.
It's been really fun to discover me.~Ruthie
Why
Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl
Ms. Argov repeatedly stresses that selfishness, abasiveness & rudeness are not the attitudes to have. The definition usually attributed to the title "Bitch" is not what she is urging you to be. For baby boomers back on the dating scene after years of marriage (like me) this book is excellent. Society & our parents RAISED us to cater to men, and in most cases after raising children and being a housewife, you haved lived for everybody else for decades. That will work against you in this day and age. This book helped me to put a relationship that was important to me back on track - without EVER disrespecting or taking for granted the man in my life. There were no "GAMES" involved - it was simply a matter of ME learning what some of you already know and implement without even thinking about it!!~New Woman
I'm a nice girl, I admit it. Like many women it's in my nature to give more
than I receive when I'm in a relationship. And I've waited for calls, e-mails,
and given up my girlfriends for a last minute date with `that guy.' But,
Argov shows how that nice girl approach may be undermining the ability to
have a more fulfilling relationship and self-worth. This book is straight-forward
and direct; Argov demonstrates why being a bit `bitchier' may pay off in
the end. While the word bitch may be off-putting it is more about empowerment
and leading your own life.
Why
Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl
had me nodding along in agreement almost the entire length. Argov
doesn't site statistics for her information - just quotes from men -and while
some of the quotes seemed phony, they still serve a purpose - they show you
how men really do like a strong, independent woman. The book was worthwhile
and will hopefully help me out in future dating situations.~Sally
Ann
RE:
Why
Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl
I cant say enough about this book. It should be an integral part of every woman's library. My girlfriends and I refer to it as "the bitch manual" and this reference is made often- reason being, Ms. Argov adresses every imaginable situation and any question you may have regarding men and why they behave the way they do. And shes always right! When one of my best friends recommended this book to me, I must say, I raised an eyebrow in suspicion. The last thing I wanted to read was a book illustrating why im such a failure in relationships, or to be lectured on how i let men take advantage of me in a condescending manner. But this most certainly was not the case- Ms Argov does a fantastic job of delivering very accurate information in a most entertaining and hilarious manner. I couldnt put it down. She points out common mistakes "nice girls" make and how to stand up for yourself, respect yourself, portray that when dealing with the opposite sex, thus ensuring that the man in your life appreciates you, and treats you the way you deserve to be treated. My life and dating style has definately changed after reading this book, I have recognized my self worth as a woman and must say, am overall much happier! I guarantee you, every woman has been or is currently "the nice girl" whether you think so or not-and as Ms. Argov points out, you can still be nice and sweet, but strong and refuse to settle for anything less than what you deserve. What a gift to all her female readers! BUY THIS BOOK!!!!~Lamia
Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl is worth every penny. It tells you something that every girls need to know how to make relationship works. It is an amazing book, it's written in a very clear, easy-to-understand manner and stright to the point. A MUST READ. Give yourself some respect my fellow sisters! I was that NICE GIRL once and always wondered why the whole thing never worked. Now I have the answer - and I will stick to it. This book will not teach you how to lure man with sexy lingerie but with your own dignity. ~C-Yeh
This is a great book for women who have just broken up with someone or who are having a hard time meeting decent men. It's also a great book for women who are too giving when they meet and date men...they give him too much too soon, before he even earned it. I would recommend it only for these women (when I read the book years ago, I was in a relationship where I was definately a doormat, and it really helped me raise my self-esteem and change the relationship for the better). This book will help make unhealthy relationships healthier.
The author gives 100 attraction principles. They are common sense and accurate, and should be learned by everyone (and not just for romantic relationships). Tips like "anyone a person chases in life runs away" are words of wisdom that have been true since the beginning of time, but when we are in an unbalanced relationship, we forget. She reminds women that men like to pursue, that giving too much to a man makes him take her for granted and look around for a girl that is less of a doormat, less of a martyr. She tells us that if a man mistreats us, don't nag him (he won't change). Leave him. She tells us to put ourselves and our wellbeing first. That it isn't healthy to call a man ten times a day, to offer him sex to stick around, to change ourselves so he will like us.
There are some parts of the book (Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl) that are tongue in cheek (I hope), anecdotes that are funny and not to be followed (don't give your date burnt popcorn, that is just mean). It is a really funny book, and an enjoyable read.
If you are in a good relationship and just want a laugh or a reminder not to neglect yourself or let yourself be walked on, you can read this book also. It has great tips and the section on men's opinion's about certain topics is great and informative (since we do want to make our partner happy, once we find a great guy that makes us happy). Once you are in a steady relationship or if you are happily married, this book is really not necessary, but still a fun read.~NYMovieGirl
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